Wednesday, 13 April 2016

FINANCIAL WISDOM ......@WiseWrite

FINANCIAL WISDOM PART II


                                                       

A boon friend of mine (Gift) called me some weeks back and said Wale, I had a dream. I was so curious to hear the dream having the understanding how gifted she is in dreams. I said Gift, let me hear you. She said she had a dream that she saw herself in a very big apartment relaxing in her Jacuzzi while a uniformed chef came to tap her and said….Madam, your food is ready. She was shocked to found out who the chef was. The shock woke her from that short nap. I asked; Gift who was the chef? She said the chef was DANGOTE---THE RICHEST MAN IN AFRICA. I laughed out loud. She asked Wale, can this dream be true? I immediately responded; YES. Why not? It is a signal of your greatness in life. Hold on to that you are doing, be diligent in it, do not be discouraged and you will surely make the hit. I explained to her in related to some confidential known plans she is having.
Many a times we feel it is late for us to be very rich in this our present world considering the present economy status and our family strata…I say NO to that. Surviving might be difficult now but application of knowledge (Wisdom) to any thing called “MONEY” within your present possession can bring us to lime light. After all, Dangote started with a 250Naira equivalent to NOW N25,000, The Nigerian Legend blogger started with 2,000naira some years back. How did all of them go about this? I called this financial wisdom. (Channeling and managing your “little” resources in a right way).


Tips on how to be Financially wise:

·         ARDENT GIVER:  Giving is a supernatural reciprocal way of receiving. I call giving a metaphoric word which till now the outcome of giving is unexplainable by human knowledge. There is no action in life that you involve and get the opposite except “Giving”. When you Give you Receive. It provokes heavenly blessings. That is why King David said “ I will not give God what will not cost me” he understood the mystery behind giving and I can imagine how blessed he was. Inculcate the habit of giving and you will see how this principle works. You don’t need to be a highly spiritual or sanctimonious human before you receive the reward of giving. It is a grace given to all men irrespective of your faith and believe. Luke 6:38. Mark Batterson quoted “When God blesses you financially, don’t raise your standard of living, raise your standard of GIVING”. BE A GIVER!!

·         TITHE PAYER: Oohh this is what I am sure many people will not love to hear but this is a spiritual truth. A principle that works for your finance. Many are so guilty of this but it does not change God’s standard. His word is ‘Yea and Amen’. Malachi 3:3 a well known part of the bible that we don’t love to read. Not only financial blessing comes to whoever pays tithe but all other blessings will be such persons. Payment of tithe has been abused due to ignorance and satanic way of depriving people of their blessings. We are full of excuses, self justification, common sense application and the likes…some are even ready to argue down to earth 1000 reasons why they should not pay tithe. How the tithe is being used, administrated should not be your concern. Obey God and you will surely get the reward. Start paying your tithe. Whoever does that is financially wise. TAP INTO THE GRACE!!!

·    HARD WORKER: Of course a diligent man will not stand before mean men. Kings position is such person’s hold. God detest being lazy. He asked sluggards to watch the ways of the ants and be wise. Working hard brings you to the light; it distinguishes you from mere men and set you high. God himself rewards any man who is hard working. Part of why he acknowledged David. A lazy man will not have anything good to show forth. Such man will always want things to come on a platter of gold. Yes!!! AWOF is always their best catch. The price of success is hard work, dedication to the job at hand, and the determination that whether we win or lose, we have applied the best of ourselves to the task at hand. A dream of becoming rich does not come into reality through magic; it takes sweat, determination and HARD WORK.

·         PRUDENT SPENDER: Stop being an extravagant spender. The little you earn is more than enough for you if you can (i.) Have a Long term goal on what you want to achieve in a particular year and (ii) Make your need a priority and not your want; distinguish between needs and wants. A man who is financially wise will not eat with ten hands because of drought days. Do your best to make saving a habit. That reminds me of my “Honey Box Game”. This is a box I keep remains of my spending every day. These remains are the change left from any of my budgeted money. If I plan to take a cab of 100naira and later met 80naira, the 20naira won’t be added to my next spending, it is kept in my “Honey Box”. This box is opened perennially to cater for any unforeseen circumstance in terms of finance. This might look arch-ache but believe me, it saves!!! This is different from your savings for your long term goal. The simple way to be prudent in your spending is to be honest about how your purchase will impact your life. Then decide if what you are looking to spend money on is really worth the asking price, or will it really change your life for the good. The answers might surprise you and make you more prudent in your spending. SPEND PRUDENTLY!!!

“Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest PROSPER and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth. “ 3  John 2”

That is definitely God’s intention for us all!!!!

See U at the peak!


Cheers!!!

@WiseWrite

Monday, 28 September 2015

Adieu to Our Best Friend (Kemi Olugbodi).........@WiseWrite




Death
How inevitable!
How could you not have a contender?
Our loved ones you devour
Our Loved ones close to our heart


Death
So complacent!
So proud!
You take whomever, however;
With no mercy...


Tears can't solve it
The pain, the pain we feel
Oh! Our loved ones
If we knew it’s gonna be this way
We would have prepared to Fight it


We will miss you
The Joy you bring, the laughter of peace
The togetherness
The Love
Words can't express it


I am still writing
But nothing in the sheets
Cos it’s unbearable, unwritable
The pain we feel, heart locked
We pray the rest ones lives long

Kemi Olugbodi Abake,
Till we meet again,
WE LOVE YOU

*Tears*
             
                        Edward Gift.

Wednesday, 12 August 2015

ADIEU TO A NOBLE FATHER.......@WiseWrite

A NOBLE FATHER!



I know this man
Who is dear to my heart
Suddenly one day
It was torn all apart

He gave me love in a little time
And touched my life in a little time
It's all over now
oh! That sumptuous gift on my wedding day!

He tried to teach me
Right from wrong
The day he left
I wasn't there!

He is gone now
It is hard to believe
This man is our dad
He calls me 1st Son (Opara)
Who I will never see again

But I will see him again
This I know
The day will come
When it's time for us to go

So, I'll hold him dear
And close to my heart
Cause the day we meet
I know we'll never be torn apart.

*tears*


Adieu My Daddy Agbalu! 

Thursday, 9 July 2015

OOU MOURNS.....June 26, 2015....@WiseWrite



DEDICATED TO OOU STUDENTS WHO LOST THEIR LIVES IN MOTOR ACCIDENT….@WiseWrite
                                                                 

Dozens of undergraduates of Olabisi Onabanjo University (OOU) Ago – Iwoye, have reportedly lost their lives after a container fell on a passenger bus they were traveling in.

The fatal accident, according to The Nation, occurred along the Sagamu stretch of the Lagos/Benin expressway, on Friday, June 26, killing 12 occupants, including the driver.

I am not an Alumnus, but it grieved my heart when prospective student’s lives get truncated after all they have gone through. It is so sad to the world because these people worth changing the country and even the world. Potentials gone!!! Stars darkened…..This little piece for them from WiseWrite and the song dedicated to them by the comrades of the school {produced by Victor Ajala…Jackson Victor Vickyjay...Alma Mata.} click below link and listen to the lyrics and lets bear them in our heart 4ever!!!!!



“There is this wound it hurts so bad
it always appears when we are sad
No matter what we do it won't go away
it’s in our heart where it will always stay
It appeared the day you all left this world
to make things easy that we couldn't bear
we search for you every day
if we are sick, sad, or just have something to say.
we are jealous of some colleagues
who still have their friends
we tell them to appreciate what they have,
because after they are gone,
there simply is no others.
we have this pain that won't go away,
it makes us mad that you couldn't stay
No matter many years go by
there's still one time of day that we do cry,
We miss you all dearly and this is true.


@WiseWrite…

http://www.hulkshare.com/shygoat/dili-well-meet-again-1

http://www.shygoat.net/2015/07/oou12-tribute-well-meet-again-dili-off.html?m=1


Thursday, 2 July 2015

IT'S IN YOU.......@WiseWrite

                                                                       



Tiny creatures operating as a unified entity collectively working together to modify the habitats, tap resources and defend themselves. Small, yet brave. They have no chief, officer or ruler yet they prepare their food in summer and gather their sustenance in harvest. Little wonder the wisest man ever lived, recommended them.
Everyone possesses ideas on how to make life ineffable, plans for a possible course of action and a sort of capability in making a feat. The knowledge of this approves that none is empty or a mediocre; that there is always something to offer, an ability to showcase and a gift to share for the benefit of the world we dwell in. An ant, the tiny creature clearly illustrates enthusiasm and individual style, demonstrating what one can achieve regardless of size or physical strength. These creatures exemplify an intrepid attitude towards virulent issues of life. If such creatures display such sense of responsibility, how much more can we? Surely, there are qualities which lie within and should be exploited for good.

Unfortunately so, we are faced with daily troubles and shortcomings which tend to weigh us down and serve as hindrance from reaching our expected goals. It is unavoidably normal to feel alarmed by these difficulties but highly risky in constantly wallowing in them for they tend to lead us to a cul de sac. Life challenges are inevitable, that should be a constant reminder; however our attitude towards these challenges defines who we really are and the extent we can go. The ability to withstand the ills of life is the beginning in overcoming the fears within and it is done by discarding the kill joys of life and focusing on what we have, in getting to where we ought to be. More so, being unperturbed at criticism life throws each time and persevering against all odds is a requisite in achieving one's Zenith.
All these, however, makes no sense when we neglect our duties and play deaf ears to our responsibilities. These potentials, if bottled up and never unleashed, poses a threat to our very existence, thus a clarion call.
Finally, it is never too late to be what you want to be, to do what you ought to do and positively affect lives around. Remember, it’s better late than never and you can never have to recover from a good start. Shoot for the moon; if you miss it, you will find your shot among the sTarS…Just believe…IT’S IN YOU.


.......@WiseWrite

Thursday, 25 June 2015

Aderemi...Episode 1{An Intriguing Story}....@WiseWrite


                                                                  

Aderemi!!!! Aderemi!!! Aderemi!!!! His mother called him 3times while entering the house and found Aderemi’s breakfast still lying on the table at about 5pm….but he refused to respond! Aderemi!! She angrily opened the door and met her only son still on bed sobbing!! Ha! You this boy, you want to kill me? Ehnnn… what have I done to deserve this from you? Why will you continue sobbing after 2weeks? Ehnn?? Please Oko mi (My Son in yoruba….) let all this my plea sink into you, don’t kill yourself with unending tears, at least you know I don’t have anyone but you, your father in the grave now will not be happy in heaven seeing you treating me like this ehnn??? If that is what you like, continue, continue…” she started sobbing with Aderemi. Aderemi turned after a while with his wet face and moved close to her mother and embraced her, they both continued to sob in each other’s arm, well wrapped. “I am so sorry Mother…..Aderemi uttered… you know I don’t really want to do this, but I am so left with no choice, I can’t handle this, it is so hard for me to consume mother…oh noo!!! I can’t bear this mother…..He wiped his face and looked straight to his mother, with a strong grip of her shoulder…. He echoed with slight aggression “Mother, I knew it, I said it, I know this will end like this, and I warned you several times but you won’t listen to me…Oh Mother, I hate to tell you this repeatedly, you are the cause of this…Ha! After 10 years??? 10 solid years!!!! Oh my God!!! He threw himself back to the bed and cried profusely. His mother was still at the bed side whimpering……


….to be continued…

Wednesday, 24 June 2015

My Name is DaYo.......@WiseWrite





My name is Dayo. I’m a typical Nigerian guy and I cherish my Fridays a lot; I get to hang out with the sickest guys every Friday night and secondly, It’s another escape from my nagging and boring wife. I get confused sometimes on whether she’s my mother or my wife. Don’t get it twisted; I love her pieces. It just gets complicated; like I wish we never got married…marriage has turned her into something that doesn’t amuse me. I wish she was still the adventurous, charming, high spirited lady I dated for five years.
A lot of people say it’s unethical for married guys to be found in a club, but I wish everyone won’t be too quick to judge and understand that people look for fun to run away from their problems; they just want to breathe, like me.
I forgot to say that I work in Guarantee Trust Bank along Lekki, I love my job and my job loves me, maybe it’s because I’m the senior banking officer. lol.... This particular morning, a lady breezed into my office. My heart raced faster because I had not sighted anything this beautiful in a long while. She wasn’t the typical slender Barbie, in fact, she was a bit chubby but her smile, cuteness and…I was tripped.
“Hi Good morning! Your ATM has swallowed my card!” She laughed, unlike a typical customer that would ram you.
I just tried to form Boss laughter…
“Good morning, you know what? I’d personally make sure they get it out for you, but not today. Can you wait till Monday?” I smiled
“GTB  shaaa! OK, can I just drop my number so you could call me up or just text when its ready so I don’t come twice? Please? My name is Nancy” She blinked her eyes in a funny way.
“Sure” I smiled
We exchanged numbers. What a lucky Friday....
So it was 10:00pm and I headed to the club…as usual my friends were chilling for me. My wife had called a couple of times, I just ignored it. She knows I’m never home Friday nights.
“Look at you!” I heard someone say. I raised my head and it was the ATM lady-Nancy.
“Wow, look at you too!” I was surprised to see her but I was happy I didn’t have to wait till Monday to see her again.
“Happy Friday!” She screamed because of the noise, “Wanna dance?”
I didn’t even have the chance to answer, she already pulled me to dance floor. I really suck at dancing but she helped me; she was a great dancer! I had fun! At some point we decided to go to a private area and we talked, ranging from work, business to personal life. I tried to hide my ring as much as possible; I certainly didn’t want this to end now.
“You are a really wonderful lady. You are so interesting…any guy would want to be with you all day” I said.
“I wasn’t always like this but I have learned the hard way that life is just too short to be sad” she sang
Then her phone rang…
“Hey baby! Yeah I’m at the private lounge, I’d like you to meet someone…alright boo” she talked excitedly as usual.
I was in shock until this tall handsome man walks up to her and kisses her.
“You were late. Meet Dayo; I met him this morning, he’s helping with your ATM I told you got swallowed and Dayo this is my B to the O-O,” she laughed “Meet my husband Kolade, we only come here to dance every fortnight Friday; away from work, stress and kids.” 
“Wow, a pleasure” I managed to shake him
Then she stood now excitedly holding her husband’s arms.
“Why don’t we invite Dayo for Mimi’s 16th birthday tomorrow?” Her husband said
they have kids too? How long have they been married and they look like a couple just dating!
“Silly me, please come for my second daughter’s 16th tomorrow. It would be an honor” She brought out an I.V from her purse.
I began to feel so ashamed of myself…this was another guy like me, getting it....
right with one woman.

I collected the I.V and promised to be there.
“See you tomorrow! Have you had something to eat Kolade?” she talked and dragged her husband along.
They left and I kept staring at the thin air like I had seen a ghost. They come just to dance together every fortnight Fridays? Why didn’t I think of that! Temi loves to dance…she also likes long walks, she loves to talk…she loves jazz music, there’s this vivid picture I have of me putting her hand on my chest when we danced at a jazz club on our first year anniversary…I found myself typing all the things I knew Temi loved to do on my Ipad and I realized I had denied her of all…I had made her the old woman she acts.
What on earth was I doing here! I didn’t even tell my friends goodbye, I walked out of the club into my Jaguar. Temi’s call came through and I picked at first ring.
“Temi?” My heart raced
“I know you are not coming home…”
“I am, stay up so we can gist. Been a while” I decided to do everything on that list and to even add many more for the rest of my lifetime with her.
“Are you alright?” She was shocked I suppose
“And I’d like us to go for a birthday party tomorrow. I want you to meet this amazing couple”
“You sound different Dayo”
“Maybe I’m different”
“Don’t say it! don’t say it! when you come we will gist very well” she laughed
She laughed!!! In just that laughter that I hadn’t heard in a while, she sounded like the lady I married six years ago…


THE END